2/27/12

Funny!

So, I just have to share this: My family was watching a very old TV show tonight, when my dear daughter says, "Why is she using that station to call him?" She was talking about a phone booth! I thought it was too funny, but then made me think of a lot of different things.
I'm wondering when I got so old; What other things will my kids never know that were necessities when I was growing up? I used a phone booth many times, but my kids never will. So, ponder that one. It was good for a laugh tonight!

2/23/12

Stuff

So, the life of a working mom is pretty busy. I didn't realize it had been so long since I last wrote. The hubby and oldest went to a huge youth event last weekend, leaving me as temporarily single mom to the other 3. We took it easier than we usually do, I threw my normal Saturday routine of grocery shopping and laundry out the window. Normally that is my alone time. Hubby stays home with the kiddos while they ease into the day, and I rush out to the grocery store to beat the crowds and provide food for the week. I struggle to get the best deals with kids in tow. So, this weekend, having the younger 3 of the kids, I decided to skip the store and take it a little easier. Interesting, Saturday night the older boy told me he liked being able to stay home and play. He was dreading the grocery store, and was actually aware and thankful that I had skipped it for the day. Small blessings! I still needed to get to the store, but that came later in the weekend, after the hubby came home. So, my moral of the story, flexibility can be so very valuable. Instead of getting the kids and me stressed out, I changed my normal routine. And yes, we ate all weekend, and had what we needed. Life is Good, Take time to enjoy it!

2/11/12

Chime In!

Okay, I do most of the writing here, but now it's your turn! Here's the scenario: You only have time/resources/energy to update one room in your home at a time. Which space do you do first. Updating begins with paint, includes perhaps moving furniture around, cleaning the carpet/floors, deep cleaning, swapping out accessories, no major furniture or flooring changes. Here are your options:
1) Entry way
2) Living Room /Family Room (main gathering area)
3) Dining Room
4) Kitchen
5) Main bathroom
6) Kids' bedrooms
7) Your bedroom
8) Your bathroom (if you have one)
9) Utility room
10) Other space: Playroom, basement, guest room, what didn't I list that you have?

Where would you begin, what would you do, and why?

I look forward to your comments!

2/5/12

Ready for Taxes?

I just spent the last couple of hours going through all of my receipts and statements from 2011 to get ready for filing taxes. I have learned a lot over the past few years, about how to make it easier on myself. In my first few years, I just filed the Easy forms. But then, the hubby went into ministry. Talk about details! As a minister, we could deduct all sorts of things, even toilet paper, because our home was used as a part of the ministry. But then, we also had to take our own taxes out and pay them quarterly. We had to be super organized to not get behind and in big trouble with the IRS. We managed to keep on top of things, though tax season was always a challenge. So, through the years, I've learned how to keep on top of things.
My tricks now? First, I have a plastic shoe box that I keep all of the bills and receipts in throughout the week. That way they're all together when I pay bills and balance the accounts.

I keep a 2 drawer filing cabinet beside where I pay bills. At least once each month, I file away all of the receipts and statements that I need for taxes, and other just-in-case records. My files are pretty specific. I try to match them up to the way the tax forms usually call for them. For example, in my medical file, I have one section for Doctor Visits, one section for Medical Supplies, and one section for Medications. I also have a section for my insurance premiums, since we pay those out of pocket. When I'm in a hurry I slip the papers on top of the cabinet, but at least once a month I file them away. Here's a pic:
I've already emptied the files in the front, the full files are the medical papers that I haven't gotten to yet. You can also see the stack of papers from 2012 that I can't file away until I take care of my 2011 papers.
So, that is constant, year-round maintenance, that just takes a few minutes. In the past, when I just piled up the papers, it took hours and hours to sort them all out. Now, when I do them frequently, it only takes a few minutes at a time.
Next, sometime at the end of January or first of February, I go through all of the files. I organize them chronologically, by category. For example, the first file is the Mortgage. I don't need to total these up, but I make sure I have a statement from the bank that includes my property tax payments. I do want to keep these papers for several years. I staple them together, as long as the staples will go through! Sometimes the stack is so thick, I just have to pray they stay together. I continue to go through each file, organizing, but only totaling up the categories that I can deduct. I keep a pad of paper handy to list out each category.
I end up with a pretty big stack, like this. I put the items that I can't deduct on the bottom, and the deductible stuff on top so I can refer back to it if I need to. I then grab a grocery sack, write the year on it, and slide the  stack of papers inside. When I'm done with my tax forms a few days later, I'll put the sack in a box, and take out the first sack from several years ago. That stack of papers can now be shredded because they're out of date (I don't know for sure how many years to keep everything, so I won't post that here!).
The next step for me is to go through my computer program that I use to record my checks and stuff. There are a few tax categories that I don't really have  receipts for, but I do have recorded there. I'm able to search for each payee and print out a list that way. Now, once that's done, I'm ready to fill out my tax forms, and send them off. Hopefully, if all goes well, I'll be getting a deposit back from Uncle Sam in a few weeks. Here's hoping!

***** This blog is NOT intended for tax advice. It is simply intended to help the reader be organized to make tax filing go a little smoother. No legal advice is offered here!!! *****

2/1/12

Slowing Down

This past month has been busy, and somewhat stressful. Regarding work/school (I teach where the kids go to school, so it's all related!), it seems like I'm constantly thinking, when this event is over, things will slow down, but of course, that never happens. It's always busy around here. So that keeps me on my toes. Same with church related activities. I now have a kiddo in the youth group, so that area has taken more of a priority, in addition to my other church-related commitments. My dad has been in and out of the hospital, fighting his cancer, lately. He's currently doing pretty good, but cancer is relentless, so I'm really wanting to take more time for me, as well as my kids, to spend time with mom and dad. So, what to do? Where to put my time and energy? It's time for me to look at my priorities again, and delegate some of my responsibilities. I really enjoy most of what I do, and each individual project doesn't take a whole lot of my time, but put them all together, I just really have to learn to say no to some things.
I probably already shared this, but it has been sticking with me lately. The story goes that God asked a man to pull a wagon up to the top of a large hill. The wagon had a few rocks in it, but was bearable. The man took on the job. As he went, he encountered several people who asked him to carry their rocks as well. Just one or two, here and there. Eventually, he could no longer pull the wagon, and had to stop. He asked God why he was asked to pull such a burden, but God reminded him that he was only asked to carry the first few rocks. God did not ask him to carry all the other rocks.
So, what rocks have I been given that I need to let go of? I'm not sure yet, but I will be praying and journaling about it. I do know this, my own 4 kids and my family are the most important. What good does it do to care for everyone and everything else, if my family is neglected? I'm going to take time in this coming week to pray about it, meditate on it, write some things down, and come up with some answers.
Sorry this post seems like a bit of a downer. But, that is the life of this working mom!